Jealousy is very common among us. In wikipedia, jealousy or green-eyed monster is a secondary emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists of a combination of presenting emotions such as anger, sadness, resentment and disgust. It is not to be confused with envy.Jealousy is very often occur in relationship because it is normal to people to jealous.There are many type of jealousy.For example is romantic jealousy,workplace jealousy and sibling jealousy.In family, parents will love their son and daughter equally but some of parents,they will have golden boy and it will make other son or daughter jealous.Everything that he want,he will get but when the other son want something even a small things,many excuses will give.In relationship,some woman or man did not care about her or his partner,which is it is up to them to do what ever they like as long as they don’t make something serious.
I choose this article because everyone has jealousy and everybody always ask how to control their jealousy.It is very often come when our partners with another man or woman.And the reason why so many couple break up , it is because of jealousy.So,this article will help us to control our jealousy and we can practice it.Practice makes us perfect.
The synopsis for this article which is how to solve the jealousy that conquer our life are learn where the jealousy come from.It is your character or just your emotion? Then,ask yourself why it makes you feel jealous.Find the solution and think slowly.For example you see your partner with another person that opposite sex.You are so jealous and want to come to that person and want to slap or something.Don’t! Think first.Maybe that person is co-worker that want to discuss about work.And flashback,maybe you also see opposite sex for work or meet friend and do your partner jealous or angry?Next step is make self-health and lifestyle changes that will assist you to fighting off.Confidence with yourself and don’t make the problem because harder.Relax and cheer up.Combine jealousy with more rational emotion.When you are jealous,think positive and avoid yourself to be in anger condition that will make worse.The last one is practice.Practice yourself to control your jealousy and emotion.Once you show off your jealous character,everyone will afraid because everybody does not like a person who is so jealous even the small matter.
My opinion of this article, I like it because it is show us how to solve our jealousy that conquer in our life.It is simple but hard to practice it because everyone will be jealous if our partner had a scandals or taking picture with another person who different sex even our partner said that ‘we just friend .So,you have to follow the step that shown.
The conclusion is we need to trust our partner hundred percent and don’t always give conclusion easily that made our partner hate us.But we need to tell to ourself that our partner is not fraudulent.If you can handle your jealousy,many thing will never happen example like break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend,will boost up your confindent.And your is happy with no trouble and problem as long as you know how to solve it.Think positive and maintain a good attitude.
The end. :)
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